Dorm Sweet Dorm
You’ve got the college acceptance letter. The roommate match. The dorm assignment. Now what?
It’s time to move in. And trust me—this is not a grab-a-lamp-and-go situation. But don’t stress. I’ve moved two kids into four dorm rooms, from shoeboxes to apartment-style setups. My daughters and I have learned what works, what doesn’t, and which bag we’d take to a desert island (spoiler: these).
Together, we created the Ultimate Dorm Guide—a mom-and-daughter-approved system that’ll get you from packing panic to move-in mastery.
Start With Intel, Not IKEA
Before you shop, scope the space. Check your college website for dorm layouts and dimensions. Join the Class of 20XX Parents Facebook group—someone there has probably already posted 17 photos of your kid’s future room.
Pro tip: If the beds are lofted or bunked, it completely changes your storage plan.
Communicate Early. Especially With the Roommate.
Coordinate who’s bringing the fridge. Decide on move-in times so you’re not both cramming into a 10x10 room with two families and 47 Target bags. Ask the big questions—like “bunked beds - yes or no?”
Pack Like a Pro. Label Like a Boss.
We swear by these blue bags for move-in. They’re stackable, strong, and cheap. Use masking tape to label each one with name, dorm, room, and contents. Why? Because sometimes the move-in crew grabs everything before you even finish parking.
Don’t Overbuy, but Don’t Skip the Essentials.
From Mom: Skip the fluffy bedding sets—opt for a washable comforter that’ll survive the dorm laundry. One set of sheets is enough (they’ll either wash them or won’t, regardless).
From Daughter: “My bed is my safe zone. Get a good mattress topper, a cozy blanket and a few cute pillows. But keep it simple—you’ll thank me when it’s laundry day.”
Power Strips Are Gold. So Are Extra Chargers.
From Mom: Outlets are never where you want them. Bring a long power strip, extra phone cords, and a backup charger. And if your kid’s a gamer, figure out WiFi for consoles before you leave.
From Daughter: “Bluetooth headphones were the best purchase I made. I use them for walks, the gym, and zoning out during study time.”
Storage Saves Sanity
Whether you’re dealing with luxury or … shall we say “legacy” dorms, under-bed storage is your MVP. Drawer bins, cube storage, and velvet hangers all help.
From Daughter: “An ottoman with storage, a nightstand with outlets, and drawer organizers kept my chaos under control.”
Don’t Forget the Day-Of Survival Kit
Parents: You need your own go-bag—scissors, zip ties, a mallet, tape, snacks, water, and patience. Wear layers, expect high emotions and don’t micromanage the room layout. (Yes, they really want the bed facing that direction.)
Students: Bring a crossbody or lanyard for your key. Eat before you unload. And take a final lap with your family before they leave—you’ll all want that photo in the quad.
The Unsung Heroes: Cleaning, Laundry, and Snacks
Bring cold meds, a first-aid kit, a stain stick, and a laundry bag that won’t spill your socks across campus.
Add Febreze, all-purpose wipes, and their favorite snacks. If they like it at home, they’ll want it in the dorm.
Bottom line? Dorm life is part storage unit, part sanctuary. Pack for comfort, not clutter. Plan together. And remember—this isn’t just about the stuff. It’s about giving your student a soft landing as they launch into college life.
Need more? Check out our free Ultimate Mom & Daughter Approved Dorm Guide plus our complete shopping guide here and follow along on Instagram @kathrinenero for more tips, tricks and pink throw pillows than you ever thought possible.
Happy move-in! You’ve got this.
– Kathrine Nero (plus real-world input from Elizabeth and Annabelle Dilts!)